Hi there, welcome to my site. I’ve been on a journey to find myself and my soul again since summer of 2020. Moving past grief is a strange thing and two steps forward can lead to three steps back.
I grew up in Kentucky but now I’m traveling most of the time. I have a 20 year old cat named Lucy that has become very needy in her late years. She is my constant companion.
There you have the basics. Oh, and I usually don’t edit my photos unless I have to. Feel free to read, comment, ask questions, and connect.
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Twenty-one Days: Cherishing Moments and Memories
21 DAY REWIND June 14th, 2020 was a Sunday. I will be stuck in this moment for the rest of my life whether I want to or not. Strange how trauma does that to the mind. As this anniversary is rapidly approaching, so goes my train of thought into a rewind. My brain seems to…
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Self-Publishing Journey: Overcoming Challenges & Celebrating Rewards
I didn’t know it then, but this self-publishing journey began several years ago. When I first started journaling my deepest, darkest thoughts in 2020, it wasn’t until about eight months later that a book started to shape in my mind. That one is still yet to be written, but I have taken that energy and…
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The Last Goodbye: A Journey Towards Healing and Closure
The author experiences ups and downs in their grief journey, feeling melancholy as anniversaries approach. A pivotal moment comes when they realize they had already said goodbye to their husband. Remembering the significance of goodbyes brings them peace and a sense of closure, highlighting the importance of parting words.
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A Positively Strange Encounter
I was adopted at six weeks old. I’ve always been curious about my birth families my entire life. Finally, in 2005, I decided to try to find them. Once I learned my birth mother’s name, it wasn’t long until I found and connected with her family. She, however, has wanted nothing to do with me…
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The Breaking Point: Dealing With So Much
Preface: This is a warning that I have been trying to write something for a while, but I am all over the place. Over the past couple of weeks, I have had so many thoughts and ideas about what I want to write about. I would start, then stop, and not finish anything. I kept…
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Morning Rituals
Writing prompt: What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like? When asked this question, I had to think about it for a while. My morning rituals have evolved over the years. Mostly because of the house or space I am inhabiting. I spend my first few minutes just…
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Fear of Writing: From Trauma to Triumph
The writer shares experiences of betrayal, loss, and fear related to writing and creativity. Exploring the impact of childhood boundary violation, she emphasizes the healing potential of writing and offers tips for reconnecting with creativity, practicing self-care, and seeking support. Overcoming fear is depicted as a journey of healing and empowerment.
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Is it Moving On OR Forgetting: The Analyzing
The writer shares her journey of grappling with the loss of her husband and navigating the realm of companionship as a widow. She emphasizes the need to take things at one’s own pace, honoring the deceased spouse, and seeking new connections. Safety precautions and self-protection are highlighted. The message promotes self-determination and finding purpose in…
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Verbal Abuse: Recognizing, Coping and Healing
The content discusses the serious impact of verbal abuse on mental health and well-being. It emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs, seeking help, coping strategies, and healing. Coping strategies include seeking support, practicing self-care, and setting boundaries. Recovery is a journey that requires patience and effort, but it is possible to overcome the effects…
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Positive Affirmations: Harness the Power of a Positive Mindset
What are Positive Affirmations? I remember watching the movie “The Devil Wears Prada” for the very first time. Being in fashion, I adored this movie immensely. When Emily repeated to herself, “I love my job. I love my job. I love my job.” something inside me took notice. She was using the power of positive…
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My Detroit Boots from Current Mood
These boots were purchased in the fall of 2017 to go to festivals. They’ve been to: -2017 Escape Halloween (San Bernardino, CA) -2018 EDC (Las Vegas, NV) -2018 Escape Halloween (San Bernardino, CA) -2019 EDC (Las Vegas, NV) -2019 Freaky Deaky (Baytown, TX) -2021 Hard Summer (San Bernardino, CA) -2022 Escape Halloween (San Bernardino, CA)…
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Life After Loss: Navigating the Challenges of Grief
Moving Into Another Year This year felt a little different going in. I don’t know why. As they say, the fog is lifting, and I’m beginning to see things clearer in my new life after loss. The one day I’ve been dreading quickly approached. As those closest to us know, Eric and I were married…